honestly, every one tries consciously to do the right thing at any movement apart frm a few lame exceptions like eating mysore pak when u r a diabetic!
it baffles me , as to wat feeling one gets when he made a decision and it seemed as though it was right, in fact perfect! but after sometimes turns out to be one which puts a nail into his own coffin!
as a Chess Player, i've many a times undergone such a situation, where u feel u r doing the right thing and finally it turns out to be otherwise..... question is tat whether i shud repent on it as a false/incorrect move or not?
this question has always puzzled me for so many years... wheather i shud repent on something which i tot was right thing ato do?
at first, let i think back to the time i made a decision... things which were working in my head while taking the decision..
- wat are the alternatives i gt?
- is this the best move?
- wat are the consequences?
- wat do i gain if this works out?
- wat do i loose if it goofs up?
so, i'd have made a concious attempt and understood the situation, to best of my ABILITY to analyse the situation.
so, on that day, i was good enuf only to take that decision.
i was not aware of a higher truth. which came to my notice afer experience.
so, by this arguement i can draw these things
- i did a thing which i felt was right, so i should back myself.
- i've learnt now that ther is a better way to do , and have learnt from the experience
- from next time, i'd keep the past in mind to take better decisions
- i'll evolve and become a better person
i'd be contended and say, tat was who i was, good enuf to take only tat decision which was taken... now, i'm evolved!